If you've been reading this column for any length of time, you'll know I like a survey, and according to research this week from Santander, the vast majority of Brits say they are kinder in December than at any other time of the year. Based on recent journeys on the M60 and battling my way through packed shopping centres, I must have had bad luck and encountered more than my fair share of Grinches, but anyway, let's have a look at the acts of kindness that we will carry out this Christmas...
Striking up conversation at times they usually wouldn't, such as when commuting (13%). I love travelling by train when I can, and it's nice to make conversation with folk who are up for a natter. I'm the same at the supermarket checkout, and would favour a 'chatty lane' and a 'speedy lane', for those who don't want to make small talk. I'm swerving away from self-service checkouts, as I'd rather be served by a real person and have a bit of a chinwag. Plus, I get an error code that requires human intervention every single time.
Being nicer to colleagues (13%). I'm eternally grateful to Cameron, who presents Tameside Radio's Drivetime Show, for waiting for me in the studio earlier this week before 6:30AM, and surprising me with a Christmas party cannon as I rounded the corner and sauntered into Studio 1. It was the best wake up call I've had this week! Caroline from our office team gets my Christmas gold star for the plentiful coffees she's made me since we moved into our new offices.
Leaving larger tips for waiting staff (16%). It must be tricky for some places to elicit tips from their customers, given so much is now ordered via smartphone apps. Having said that, I am a firm believer in good service being rewarded, and the same goes for leaving a tip for your binmen or postie. They are out in all weathers, and I'm thankful for that.
Giving genuine compliments to strangers (19%). I was told I had a face 'made for radio' last weekend, and am going to take that as a compliment, even though it most likely wasn't. It gives you a nice feeling to say something nice about someone else. More should try it.
Cooking for other people, such as friends and neighbours (19%). A really kind lady who lived next to my mate Tom for years regularly used to pop round with food she had made, and whilst she is sadly no longer with us, it was a lovely gesture. I suspect if our neighbours made us cookies, they would probably be laced with laxatives, given the parking and noise squabbles we have had with them in recent years. I don't want to tempt fate, but we should be moving house in January, all being well. Here's hoping they don't read this!
Checking in on vulnerable people or those who may be experiencing loneliness (21%). Age UK recently revealed that one in two older people don't feel the joy they once felt at Christmas, whilst one in three won't be puttting up a Christmas tree. A staggering five million will be eating their Christmas dinner alone, and 670,000 won't see or speak to anyone. This is heartbreaking.
Carving out more time to see friends and family (31%). We all lead busy lives, but as time marches on, it's important to see those close to us, and take a break from the treadmill of work and daily responsibilities. Many will be working over the festive period, and we'll be keeping you company on Tameside Radio with great music and chat.
Supporting small or local businesses when shopping (31%). This one is important all year round. We have loads of fabulous independents in Tameside and Glossop, and now more than ever, they need your support. Many are feeling the squeeze following the budget, and whilst many of us have less disposable income than ever, we all have choices to make about where we spend our cash.
Donating good or toys to local charities and foodbanks (33%). I hope one day the UK will have no foodbanks, and find it strange when MPs pose for photo opportunities at new ones that open up. They are a symbol of societal inequality, but deserve our wholehearted support, if you're able to make a donation this Christmas. Whoeever you're spending it with, thanks for reading, and have a fantastic, peaceful one.
Alex Cann's weekly blog - 9th January
