Tameside resident inspires others to think about becoming a Shared Lives Carer

Hyde resident Cath Tynan says that being a Shared Lives Carer has allowed her to fulfil her dreams and make a difference to people’s lives.

To celebrate Shared Lives Week (15 to 21 June), Cath Tynan is sharing her experience of supporting Linda Shaw and Rita Walker through Tameside Council’s Shared Lives scheme, which matches adults who need support with carers who share similar interests and lifestyles.

Cath has supported Linda, who has autism and learning difficulties, for around 12 years. Linda initially stayed with Cath for short breaks when her father was diagnosed with cancer and her mother developed dementia. Before he passed away, Linda’s father asked Cath to take on her care permanently - something Cath agreed to “in a heartbeat.”

In 2017, Cath and Linda shared their story as part of a Tameside Council campaign, winning Local Government Communications Campaign of the Year at the UK Public Affairs Awards. Cath says the recognition gave Linda a huge confidence boost and grew her independence, as nothing like that had ever happened to her before.

Nearly a decade later, the pair continue to thrive and have also welcomed Rita, who has learning difficulties, into their home for the past four years.

Cath promotes independence in a safe space, with Linda and Rita having their own flat inside the house.

The trio share daily life together, from cooking and cleaning to learning important life skills such as using appliances and reading the news. They enjoy caring for pets and feeding birds in the garden.

Cath, who also provides respite care for other adults, said: “It’s a very rewarding and satisfying job.

“We run as a family home. I don’t really see myself as a carer – they care for me sometimes!

“Like any family, there are problems and hurdles, but we overcome these together.”

Cath added: “A highlight is watching somebody grow and allowing them to live a normal life like everybody is entitled to, having new adventures and experiences. It’s an absolute privilege.”

She says the council’s Shared Lives team have been incredibly supportive and made the process easy, providing training and opportunities to meet other carers.

Linda said: “I couldn’t ask for a better life, it’s like being on holiday! We all think the world of Cath, she’s the nicest person you could ever meet.

“I didn’t know how my life was going to go, I couldn’t have managed on my own. I lost my mum and dad and never thought I’d find somebody as good as them, but I have done in Cath.

“I love what I do every day. Cath and Rita are like sisters to me; I wouldn’t swap them for the world.”

Linda enjoys activities such as kayaking, attending community groups and going to gigs, with Cath supporting her to plan and travel safely to do the things she loves.

Rita appreciates being able to do what she chooses and retain her independence, whilst staying in contact with Cath.

Watch this video to see some of the things they get up to: https://www.youtube.com/shorts/HupaOiLw7-M

Tameside Council Executive Member for Adult Social Care and Inclusivity, Cllr Jackie Lane, said: “Shared Lives Carers like Cath make a truly life-changing difference, providing opportunities for people to live more independent and fulfilling lives.

“If you’re patient, kind and have a genuine interest in making a difference to people’s lives, please get in touch with the team to find out more about becoming a Shared Lives Carer.

‘’Thank you to Cath and all of our other carers across Tameside, as well as our council Shared Lives team, for your meaningful work.”

Shared Lives support can be long-term, respite, or day support. Tameside Council recruit, match, and support people to become Shared Lives Carers. No formal qualifications are expected, welcoming people with different skills from different backgrounds.

Find out more at www.tameside.gov.uk/sharedlives or apply at https://sharedlivesgm.info/.