Local carers share impact of support

Two local carers have told how finding support has made a huge difference as they navigate the realities of looking after their loved ones.

Pam, from Ashton and David Cartwright from Droylsden, who both access Tameside Carers Centre, say the service has provided practical help, emotional support and a sense of connection during some of their most challenging moments.

Pam cares for her husband John and regularly attends the centre’s monthly coffee mornings, where carers can meet others and share experiences.

Pam said: “I can’t praise the Carers Centre enough. I was a bit nervous at first but I’m so pleased I went, it’s the best thing I’ve ever done really.”

John added: “Apart from marry me!”

She explained how connecting with others has helped her feel less alone: “At the coffee mornings I just feel people understand, it’s like getting a load off your mind.”

Pam has also received one-to-one support from a wellbeing advisor, who helped her and John successfully apply for Personal Independence Payment (PIP), as well as gaining practical advice from other carers to support them at home.

David, who cares for his husband alongside their support dog Rosie, has also found reassurance through the centre following his husband’s recent Alzheimer’s diagnosis.

David said: “It’s helped me a lot. It’s sort of an outlet. We were just getting used to one diagnosis, and then we got this on top.”

He described the centre as a safe and supportive space: “Whether you want to talk or just get out of the house for five or ten minutes, it is there.”

David also highlighted the ongoing support available: “There’s a labyrinth of things you can help us with and signpost us to, and the nice thing is you follow up.”

Both carers encouraged others to seek support early. Pam said: “Don’t be frightened to come, everyone is so friendly,” while David added: “Don’t hesitate. The sooner you do it, the better.”

Tameside Council’s Executive Member for Adult Social Care and Inclusivity, Cllr Jackie Lane, said: “Pam and David’s experiences show just how important it is for carers to have somewhere to turn. The Carers Centre provides a welcoming space where people can access advice, build connections and look after their own health and happiness while caring for others.”

The centre offers a range of support, including:

• One-to-one advice and welfare support
• Social activities and drop-in-sessions
• Signposting to health and community services

A carer is a person who provides informal and/or unpaid support to a partner, family member, friend or neighbour and they could not manage without this help. If you look after someone, help is available. Find out more at  www.tameside.gov.uk/carerscentre or call 0161 342 3344.